The friendships of awakened conscious beings are truly special. They are formed at an evolution point in the lives of those who are experiencing them, where everything is more truthful, real, and balanced.
Because they are conscious of their inner world and involved in dissolving their illusionary selves, they are attracting souls on the same frequency.
These types of friendships will exist forever and the daily journeys they are experiencing together are teaching them that unconditional love, support, or acceptance are real states of beingness.
The result of these types of healthy relationships is that we finally are starting to feel loved, safe, accepted, respected, not judged, healing deep patterns of trust issues or gossiping behaviors.
They are NOT formed by different circumstances of the environment where we must accept each other. They are founded consciously on truth, trust, healthy boundaries, and resonance.
These types of friendships are a reflection of inner maturity and self-love because there is nothing toxic about them.
I am grateful to experience the beauty of my heart holding the hands of my dearest friends. Thank you for making me feel safe and loved.
The awakening process is unique for each one of us but the common “symptom” of those who started to awaken is when they simply accept new information about the world we are living in. The new information activates something within them and they start to research on their own.
I remember very good this first stage of awakening. I could stay hours and hours night after night reading knowledge, or ideas about the matrix system we are living in, and about esoteric wisdom. I was not interested to do or learn anything else; to make my own research based on my intuition, discovering new things daily, was what I liked to do the most at that time, and there were not many people who could easily be open to understand or listen to you when you wanted to share.
I have always had the feeling of knowing all the things I was reading, and looking back now, I understand that the knowledge I was learning was just a trigger for me to remember. Later, I realized that I was unconsciously making my first steps on my ascension path.
The Ascension Path is a profound change and evolution of our 3D personality, but you don’t know this at first.
You listen to your inner guidance by starting to integrate daily knowledge that is activating your DNA without having any clue about the road or the destination you just decided to walk.
From the level of consciousness that I have now, I can say metaphorically that this is the first kinder garden class of spiritual wisdom. We discover new things, like the children who discover that they can walk. Although the innocence of a child is simply beautiful, he still needs to grow, becoming mature and responsible.
I remember how, in the first years of my spiritual journey, having only knowledge of many things without applying or practicing much, I was restrained by my ego to grow spiritually a lot. The unconscious attitude for some at this level is to think that they are special because they understand and know more than the average. This level activates the mental body in a way that is making you think you are above others.
It is a level that is good to be transcended as fast as it’s possible for allowing the inner healing process to start. In most cases, this is happening and the second level is starting, named by so many, the dark passage of the Soul.
The dark passage of the Soul is a level where you start becoming conscious of many negative experiences you had, and searching for healing tools is your main priority. The heaviness of remembering, accepting, integrating and forgiving traumatic experiences from this lifetime, or other lifetimes, is deeply felted.
At this level, you switch from one extreme personality that you activate in the first level, “the savior, the omniscient of all”, to the other extreme personality “the victim”.
Learning to live in balance by finding the center of our beingness is a sign that we start to graduate from kindergarten. Until then, we will experience ups and downs at a great speed.
Once we decide to continue walking on our spiritual path, our Higher Selves are allowing us to step by step, dissolve layer after layer of karmic misdeeds, traumatic experiences, fears.
We will constantly attract scenarios that are triggering deep fears stored within us, for bringing them to the surface and dissolve them with love.
Every step on this divine path is an act of self-love and a strong desire to live in union with God, the Source of Love.
At this level, we start attracting people that resonate with our energy field, and light tools that are simplifying our spiritual practices so much. We will stop projecting our inner wounds on our dear ones, learning to express our feelings and searching for healing tools that are helping us to make peace with our past, our parents, our experiences, knowing that making peace from within is the only way of living in peace in the outer world.
We start integrating more and more the fact that nothing is happening in our world and in the Universe that we don’t have a responsibility for. Meditation, prayers, positive affirmations, visualizations, intentions, and conscious behavior such as” why I attract this today?”, are becoming daily main practices.
The next level is the level where we consciously start to serve the Divine by start doing what we came here to do, becoming active on our spiritual path.
We integrated some of the heavy experiences, we managed to forgive to a certain degree, we are more centered and our hearts are starting to open through feelings of gratitude and love.
At this level we start acting with more responsibility in every area of our lives, understanding that we are the cause, not the effect. This is a level where it is good to start offering your spiritual gifts, your wisdom.
It is a level where we must take care of the divine energy we channel through our spiritual practices. Because our vibration is growing, we hold more energy and it is our responsibility to take care of it, growing the flame of love from within.
Burning stages and jumping to being active on your soul path without passing through the healing process first is egocentric and almost impossible because you will continue attracting your inner wounds, through the outer world.
The purpose of the dark passage of the soul is to help you in letting go of the heaviness you are carrying that is consuming a lot of energy and doesn’t allow you to raise your vibration and to grow spiritually.
I have experienced a lot in the last 4 years of my inner healing journey and I would not have experienced the grace, love and peace within me if I was not allowing my soul to guide me in dissolving the weight I was unconsciously carrying.
There were many times where I asked myself the question “What if I would have ignored my soul guidance?” The answer is scary for me still.
I couldn’t live another life where all the negative baggage is carried daily without having a clue about it, living unconsciously and disconnected from the source of my soul essence, just experiencing small fractions of life, without knowing the true potential we all have within us.
I had to ignore stored fears as many of you, my whole life. Fear of being judge, fear of not being good enough, fear of expressing myself, fear of the world, fear of suffering, and nothing good came out of ignoring them. Wonders happened when I started becoming conscious about them being just effects of something deeper within myself, and navigating through them or dissolving them is a process that is taking time.
Before deciding for starting being active on my soul path in service to humanity, I resisted my path, finding excuses always, but our souls have a nice way to “push” us out of our comfort zone.
Every step I took on my soul path, no matter how major or minor looked, was building my spiritual foundation for holding more responsibility and having more gratitude for everything in life.
Trust that your soul is guiding you towards total freedom, abundance, love and happiness because there is no other reality for your soul than all these divine aspects.
Most people are run by the patterns stored in their mental body, manifesting a reality based on those beliefs. Those beliefs are rooted in past experiences events.
If many patterns are increasing around a fixed focus (for example, your parents), then energy is formed around those patterns and a living consciousness is created. The mother-father figure within you develops into a consciousness.
Your synergy with your parents as a unit, and with each other as an individual, has formed a certain quantity of this energy to become real for you. This parent consciousness within you has its own blueprint and influence that add to the development of your physical identity.
You have embodied an amount of their consciousness within. You can let go of some of the beliefs from your parents by easily dissolving them consciously through different healing methods, as well as any other deep-rooted pattern.
Mankind has so many modified states of existence, mostly because one comes into this dense physical world with a lot of baggage from the past.
The foundation for incorporating Light, becoming the I AM God Self, is to dissolve our past baggage.
When we align our lives to live in the now, when we become lighter and feel love, we are allowing God’s divinity to be anchored in our reality, through us.
As Joshua David Stone states in his book, Soul Psychology, “The most essential relationships in your life are your relationship to your Self and God. If you are not right with your Self, you will project your wrong relationship to Self onto everything in your life, including God because in reality your Self and God are the same things.”
Self-love and acceptance of your past experiences are the main keys to letting go easily of what you don’t need anymore.
Dissolving the parent consciousness programs is not meaning that you dissolve the love for your parents; it is clearing the idea of them that you have within.
You create your existence through your own belief structure. Everything that you create is like a hologram. You manifest this specific hologram wherever you go. If the inner impression of your parents, is in a certain type, then you create an outer identical hologram.
Your self-love, self-worth, self-expression, are defined by your inner unconscious emotions you have with your present parents.
A lot of what family members and others in your life are doing is revealing a plot that you have created unconsciously to enlighten something within yourself. Observe sharply at the people in your life that are triggering you.
If your point of view of my reality does not match with my point of view, and if my point of view of your reality does not match your point of view, then there is some frustration from the 3D perspective.
The outcome of this is a misperception because one sees the other as he wishes the other to be, not as the other is. This is how these inner “programs” become activated.
By removing these inner beliefs from within yourself, you will begin to see your parents in their own light, in their own form, without projecting your patterns onto them.
They will also begin to see you more in the form that you really are, because on an unconsciously level, you are allowing your true Self to shine and emanate.
Much of the way they seem to see you is also determined by your beliefs of them.
We project our reality onto all of the people in our lives, which means that there are always two or more scenarios overlapping, and most of the time they are easily out of focus.
There is a certain part of me, that sits in judgment for giving all this time writing this post. It is a wonderful experience but on the other side, I ask myself if the time is worth spending.
Two very different characters have joined the set. One is the father side that says, “You should stop wasting your time, build a business!”, and the other character, my inner child, who wishes to follow its guidance but does not want to engage with the father by creating trouble.
This is exactly why we need to dissolve our inner 3D patterns.
The path towards true Self-Mastery is to become responsible for everything we are allowing in our lives by letting go of all the artificial patterns of Self.
As a clear example, when we clean our house, we don’t do it only once. What seems brilliant clean and luminous one day may look a bit dirty a few days later because we develop and become conscious of different stored patterns, almost daily.
PS: I used the parents only as an example. We have so many past experiences that have left us disconnected from our true Self.