How often do you project instead of seeing the truth of what it is?
How often do you mistake your mental guidance with your soul guidance?

During the last years of digging into my unconscious, and connecting with many people from the spiritual community, I learned that being flexible, receptive, accepting, trusting, being equal to others, filtering out any type of information, and not taking personally the projections of others, are essential keys to keep walking on my ascension path with the head up and my heart open.

From my experience, I have noticed that in the spiritual community, people are much more rigid, having constant doubts when you approach them with love. When I started this spiritual journey, in my eyes, the spiritual community was the self-conscious community, and it took me a long time to understand why so many people were taking decisions, unconsciously, from the vibration of fear, although they were using words such as “love and light.”

Even though my soul guided me to attract situations from which I had to transcend karmic patterns, I noticed that in fact, only a few people embodied the energy of trust and acceptance in their consciousness and accessed their intuition rather than their mental body programs.

Because many people from the spiritual community started to be aware of the truth of the world in which we live, at the same time when they started to be aware of their inner shadow self, discovering that they are also multi-dimensional beings, I noticed that there is a great inner conflict.

This inner conflict is taking the joy out of their life, making many think that the salvation of the world is in their hands, therefore their focus is on one aspect, disconnecting themselves from the flow of life. This inner conflict can be reflected in different ways. 

Below I listed the traits I noticed the most:

• Lack of trust
• Lack of joy
• Lack of health
• Lack of responsibility
• Lack of commitment 
• Inability of being playful
• Inability to access the intuition
• Inability to access the truth
• Projecting rather than integrating
• Creating ideas about someone without allowing yourself to feel his/her intentions or energy 
• Believing that you are constantly attacked by darkness
• Seeing and putting yourself above others
• Building up walls around your heart, from past experiences 
• Searching to rationalize the feeling of love
• Giving more power to your Lower Self, than to your Divine Self
• Thinking that many want to hurt you.

One of the most common patterns I have noticed in people from the spiritual community is the inability to allow themselves to be loved. Although they can speak or write beautiful things about love, they are stuck in an unconscious cycle of attracting situations that are feeding an artificial narrative about love.

Many of us don’t have any role model of what love is or how love should be expressed in any type of relationship. We have experienced deep wounds in regards to love relationships and unconsciously, we are still confusing love with infatuation.

In my eyes, love in a healthy relationship should be easy.
Love is a beautiful harmonious dance.
Love is accepting the other the way he/she is. 
Love is trust.
Love brings out the best in others.
Love is when you hold space.
Love is when you give space.
Love is the energy that gives and nourishes.
Love makes you feel safe.
Love is giving a part of yourself to the other in full trust that he/she has your best interest.

Love is a vibration that in the beginning should be embodied by yourself in order to have a glimpse of how love is truly feeling. Afterwards, it can be easily expressed and offered to your dear ones without having expectations.

If we, the conscious ones, are emanating more love into the crystalline planetary grid and fewer projections onto each other’s, the organic timeline can be stabilized much faster.

We are the keepers of the divine truth and it is our duty to live as much as possible in a state of love, being open to attracting healthy relationships in order to become role models for the new generation, showing them through our actions what love is.

Choosing love over and over again is bravery.

Be open to love and be loved.

Much love,


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